post doesn't come from me, it comes from friend Lizzie she also is a
brilliant writer who knows just how to put thinks into perspective in a
crisis and exactly how to put pen to paper. She wrote this a few weeks
ago, it's so beautiful and touching I just had to share, I hope you take
something from it, if just a small piece.
This is part two of a previous post!
Temptation is over rated.
Girl meets boy, boy has
likes girl, girl likes boy,boy has sex with girl. Boy doesn't call girl
Beauty is something that should be grasped with both hands, whether it
be inside beauty,or out; both are as equally important.
complain that they aren't beauty, but what is the definition of beauty per say? It's opinionated, not factual.
Life is opinionated. Words, actions, decisions.
Although, I am a strong believer that things happen for a reason.
Whatever that reason may be, there is a reason. Unknown, undiscovered,
I was meant to fall in love with the people I did, and now I
am meant to be on my own. No, I'm not looking for a sob story award. I
only speak the truth. There is a purpose for us being here, there is a
purpose for all the things that we do. I believe in fate.
I believe what we do in life, the decisions we make, are already made
for us, we have a path and what we do enables us to travel along the
This writing, or whatever it may be, is dedicated to a dear friend of
mine, to which I hope she reads again and again in the years that
She recently lost a boy she loved so deeply, and he broke her heart in
so many ways that no amount of kind words or sweet lullaby's could fix
Within an emotional trance already from a family death, she was then
to find out of some infidelity on her [Then separated ] boyfriends part with a girl he
had known a matter of hours.
Although, they had broken up previous to this [Three Days], they were still
emotionally attached, to which she thought, by love. In my eyes, and as
I'm sure many others, you don't stop loving someone before the words,
After many lies, threats, violation of privacy and life, he finally
And this next bit is dedicated to those girls out there,
and boys, who have been in a similar unlawful situation.
Mistakes are the starting blocks of your life. You make these, to learn
from them, you make them not only for yourself, but for others, as a
demonstration that you are a willing, strong, independent person.
are not being controlled by anyone no longer, only you can control your
feelings, your own mind. God created you to be yourself, to be true to
yourself and live your life.
Be true to Him.
Take this as a life experience, do not waste your cries over something
that cannot be undone. Do not dwell on the bad, dwell on the good. Do
not find yourself in misery, but only happiness. Happiness is your goal.
Happiness will help you succeed.
You are young, you are gaining the life skills you need to overcome
this. It will take time, I kid you not, but you have a strong heart; a
heart made of gold, a smile that brightens anybody's day, and I know, as
do others, you can make this out through the tunnel.
You are not alone. Friends, family, anybody and everybody is here for
you. Always and forever.
One day, you will learn from your mistakes, you will laugh about this,
you will cry about this, you will become a better person because of it.
But for now, I am here for you, we are here for you, whatever time or
You can cry on my shoulder always.
Forever and always.
I told you she was bloody good.
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